What Are You Waiting For?
What are you waiting for from your spouse?
Are you waiting for more appreciation? More picking up after himself? More self-reliance when it comes to getting the computer and other electronics to work?
Are you waiting for more foreplay? Less modesty in bed? Better meals? Some landscaping? Maybe weight loss? Or perhaps vacation planning?
What would you do if you learned today for certain you will never get it? What if you could tell right now, without a doubt, you cannot and will not get it, not by nagging nor by being extra nice nor even by promising money or sex?
Can you picture yourself finding a way to accept you won't be getting what you're waiting for and love your spouse anyway?
If so, no matter how justified you might be for wanting what you've been waiting for, while you wait, you miss out on being fully in love with each other.