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How to Have More Fun with Your Husband or Wife

Life falling into a rut? Finding yourself whining that you two don't do much any more? Some simple tips for more fun:


  • Invite or accept with enthusiasm.

  • Mentally rehearse what could go right, not wrong.

  • Give yourself time to shift gears before you go.

  • Be fully present while you're together.

  • Watch for moments you want to remember.

  • Savor the best parts of your time together later.

Activities that involve exercise, like dancing, swimming, skiing, skating, or climbing, hold the most promise of a good time. But a shared experience as observers of a great performance, like jazz, tango, film, opera, or a soccer game, can be pretty wonderful, too. Just leave your wet blanket in the laundry room, please.

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One way we love to Savor the best parts of our time together later is by watching a slide show of photos we took of our antics. It never gets old, not for me anyhow!

I love it, CJ!

Mentally rehearsing a good time is a great idea. I would also suggest that you consider (without obsessing) things that might go a bit wrong and rehearse how you will respond in a positive way so that you can get back on the fun track.

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