What is the Perfect Environment for your Marriage?
Have you ever thought about the perfect environment for your marriage?
Would it be one with or without snow? With or without hot, hazy, humid days? With or without a lot of rain and drizzle? Does weather lead to fights or resentments for the two of you? Or does it encourage you to cuddle up inside?
Would your marriage flourish if you lived in a place where you open the front door and walk comfortably and safely, whether to cool off before continuing discussion or to have some together time with exercise?
Would your ideal kitchen be one where one of you can comfortably sit and chat while the other prepares a meal? Where you can work side-by-side? Or one small enough to guarantee you've got it all to yourself when you're cooking?
Is your ideal living room one with room for two guests? Six? Sixty two? Would it have a piano? A karaoke machine? A large, HD television for sports?
How about your dining room or kitchen table. Does it feel great to sit at opposite ends and preside over the family or the meal from two sides? Or would you feel closer seated next to each other?
Is it near a swim club? A tennis court? Horse trails? A certain type of dance club or eatery? Old friends? New friends? Maybe a cherished relative or two?
Is your ideal bedroom soundproofed? Locked? Decorated for romance or for relaxation?
What sort of home would help keep you from drifting apart, getting bored, or fighting over your differences? What can you do today to make yours just a bit more wonderful?