The 2 Biggest Threats When You Marry
Threat Number 1: You choose a partner who believes it is ever (ever!) okay to threaten, endanger, or harm you when frustrated or angry.
Threat Number 2: You fail to deal with your own problems, limitations, or disappointments because you believe your spouse ought to deal with them, help you deal with them, or at least give his or her assent.
You will know instantly if Threat Number 1 hits you. Beware, though, of Threat Number 2, because it's not that easy to recognize this tar pit until you're thoroughly stuck in it.